Online dating text rules
: A man will jump over a lot of hurdles to sleep with a woman that is hotter than himself, or at least, hotter than the other girls he's slept with.
The more attractive you are relative to him, the more cautious you need to be.
Filtering is necessary because the men that a woman wants to date are a subset of the men that want to have sex with her, and by making herself more attractive to potential boyfriends she also is making herself more attractive to all men.
A girl interested in saving her time and emotional energy needs to be as adept as possible at discerning these these types of men.
And this is why it is so important for a woman not to initiate contact with a man.
I’ve been guilty of waiting with baited breath for my phone to make that beloved ding, I’ve played Text Detective, I’ve endured the agonizing pain of a stomach twisted in knots and a mind demanding to know: Why is he taking so long to write back? Why haven’t I heard from him today, isn’t he thinking about me? Why are his answers so short and vague, is he not into me anymore? Why did he initiate a conversation and then just disappear?
I’ve given this topic a lot of thought and narrowed it down to three main reasons why us ladies work ourselves into such a tizzy over a guy’s texting habits. We Just Don’t Get It Reality isn’t absolute, it’s created based on our own experiences and how we interpret them.